The Four Principles of Sexuality The Four Principles of Sexuality Let me go back to the original question: what makes this sex book different than all the other sex books out there? In my journey towards sexual mastery, I tried almost everything out there. I read a lot of books specifying exactly what angle and with what degree of pressure to rub the clitoris, how many inches to insert your fingers into the vagina, etc. While a basic knowledge of sexual technique did help me, the more complex techniques which promised mind-blowing results really didn’t work. Far from making me seem like a sex god, they made me seem like a gynecologist, constantly prying and experimenting. After doing this for a while, I gave up all external sources of sexual knowledge and decided to learn bedroom skills on my own. When I had achieved sexual mastery, I noticed that there were a few underlying principles that defined everything which made me good in bed. These are the things that separate the beta male sexual wannabes from the true alpha male bedroom superstars. They are: 1. PSYCHOLOGICAL OVER PHYSICAL STIMULATI 1. PSYCHOLOGICAL OVER PHYSICAL STIMULATI R PHYSICAL STIMULATION A common sexual problem with men is their obsession with the physical. Men frequently approach becoming good in bed with a problem-solving mentality, similar to learning how to play chess. They think of women like machines. Rub the machine in a certain way for a certain amount of time, and bam, it produces an orgasm. The reason why this mentality is incorrect is that it totally neglects the psychological aspect of sex. Although it is harder to see and understand than the physical, it is much more important. Let me explain why: Men spend billions of dollars every year on making themselves more attractive to the opposite sex. Whether it is on clothes, or on dates, or on seduction workshops, we each expend huge amounts of our time and money in order to make ourselves attractive for women. Yet, for about fifty bucks you could buy a sex toy which replicates the feeling of a vagina almost exactly. So, why isn’t sex obsolete? Why don’t we just buy the toy, and consider this part of our life handled? The answer is because while sex toys can provide physical stimulation, they can’t provide psychological stimulation. And, psychological stimulation is the most importan psychological stimulation is the most important asp ect of sex. Mere physical stimulation is just “getting o of sex. ff.” Extraordinary psychological stimulation combined with basic physical stimulation is mind-blowing. Imagine the difference between masturbating and having sex with a beautiful woman. That is the difference that psychological stimulation makes. Although psychological stimulation is important for men, it is ten times more important for women. Consider this: there are hundreds of different sex toys on the market. Women can buy vibrators, dildos, vibrating dildos – anything their hearts desire to give them absolutely perfect physical stimulation. In fact, many women do buy these toys to use for times they can’t get sex. But, ask any woman and you will find out that these toys are a poor substitute for the real thing. Women don’t fantasize about buying a dozen batteries for their rabbit on a Saturday night and vibrating the shit out of themselves. They fantasize about sex. It should be obvious that the key to becoming great in bed does not lie in ways to stimulate the body; it lies in ways to stimulate the mind. While physical technique has its place, what will really drive a woman crazy is knowing how to arouse her on all the psychologically. Combine this arousal with basic physical technique, and you have a recipe for great sex. 2. THE IMPORTANCE OF DOMINANCE 2. THE IMPORTANCE OF DOMINANCE DOMINANCE This is something that you will find no mention of in mainstream sexual literature. But yet, it is a critically important aspect of great sex. Dominance is an extremely important sexual characteristic for a man because millions of years of evolution have programmed women to respond programmed women to respond to respond instinctually instinctually instinctually to dominant to dominant men. Consider this: tens of thousands of years ago, our human ancestors were tribes of hunters. There were two types of males in this society: the alpha males, and the beta males. The alpha males were the dominant, aggressive males. They were the ones at the top of the tribal society, and they made the rules. The beta males were the smaller, weaker males. They were submissive to the alphas. Now consider that there were two types of females in this primitive society: those who liked alpha males, and those who liked beta males. Some liked how the betas were gentle, and nurturing, and always provided for them. Others were turned on by the Dominance and aggression of the alphas. When these females reproduced, they each had children with the genetic tendencies of their parents. The children of beta males turned out to be beta. The children of alpha males turned out to be alpha males themselves. What happened though, is that alpha males eventually beat the shit out of the beta males and raped all their women. The children of beta males did not survive, the children of alpha males did. Evolution slowly weeded out all those women who were attracted to anything but the most dominant of men. Today, there is only one type of female: those who like alpha males. The desire to be submissive to a dominant alpha male is one of the deepest and most important instincts of females of any species. If this instinct is so important, however, why do you hear nothing about it in mainstream sex literature?

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